I always wanted a pair of new shoes until I saw a picture of a man with no feet.
It was nearing the end of school holiday. My parents promised me, that if I finishes top in my class, they would reward me with new pair of shoes. I have been eyeing that particular pair of shoes since I was in standard four.
When the shoes were introduced to the Malaysian market in 1993, it became an instant hit among my friends. They would come to the playground with their new pair of shoes and proudly parading it to others. Determine not to lose to them, I rushed home and demanded my parents that they should get me a pair of it. Though I was screaming and kicking, adamantly trying to convince them, my outburst only falls on deaf ears and caused me dearly as my father grounded me for a week. No play station, no movies and no daily allowances. Seeking vengeance, I vowed that I would not eat, drink even talk to my parents unless they bought me the shoes. Though my parents tried to explain that the shoes were so expensive, it is under my prerogative to demand for it. A promise is still a promise.
Later that night, as I was lying in my bed facing the wall, sulking, I smelled my mother walked into my room and sat at the edge of my bed. I was certain that she wanted to knock some sense into me via mother-son conversation. Pretending to be asleep, I prayed for my mother to leave me alone and surprisingly she did, but not before leaving some things on my bedside table.
I was flabbergasted to see the two things she left for me which is a package of my favourite pizza for my dinner and a newspaper cutting depicting a man with no feet. I quickly read the newspaper cutting to figure out what had happened to that man. My mother highlighted some lines in the articles to point out that among the thing that this man missed most is to wear a pair of shoes.
Though dumbfounded by mother’s approach to instil some sense into me, the unflinching truth that one should not be selfish, really penetrated my ego. Such a profound message that has been conveyed shrewdly. I am fortunate to learn this through my mother’s wisdom and not through the hard way.
For the record, I am writing this without any political inclination and
any intention to undermine any individual or party.
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Though there are many ways to dissect the outcome of the 12th General Election, one point worth mentioning is the blatant use of electronic media to promote election manifesto as well as to disseminate propagandas. In the case of the opposition, with scarced access to the mainstream media, has tapped the power to reach the masses via the Internet, to their fullest advantage. Words such as blog, bloggers and columnist, which was so ‘alien’ to Malaysian once, has become an indispensable and vital tool for the opposition to stand their ground.
The popularity of the blog was largely due to the factor that for the author of any blog can remain anonymous, should he/she choose to. With almost everything and anything that can be ‘blogged’ in a few minutes and accessed instantly, the mainstream media has now meet its match.
As Malaysian became educated, the sudden shift of people’s trust from the mainstream media to this new domain, was probably due to the boredom and ‘fatigueness’ of the constant supply of one sided coverage via the mainstream media, particularly since Barisan National secured the landslide victory in 2004. This has really pushed the opposition to nurse their political aspiration via the internet particularly by using blogs.
Notwithstanding, one must not be mistaken that the blatant use of media and the internet, or the opposition’s manifestos, as the main factor that propelled the opposition as a victor in the 12th General Election. The main thrust of this change is more likely due to the frustration that has been engulfing the nation since 2004. The victory of the opposition was very much just an escapism from the previous government. Nothing more.
When I first heard the rumour that my named was short-listed, to participate in the Diplomatic Training Course 2008 (DTC 2008), I quickly dismissed its possibility. As my career is still in its infancy, the sense of pessimism was quick to engulf my thoughts, implying that my 2 years of service was nothing compared to those who have served the unspoken ‘3 years mandatory period’, before being ‘sanctioned’ to join the DTC.
I savoured with tremendous jubilation when my nomination form for DTC 2008, was signed by the Undersecretary of Southeast Asia Division, that I almost forgot my manners to thank him for his approval. However, throughout the day, my euphoric condition gradually degrading, that by midnight I was left only with worries and doubts. I found myself waking up the next day feeling so miserable. I could not take my mind off the notion that I am a very young officer, and the connotation that the other 26 officers are better prepared, well equipped, and more polished to rise above the challenges throughout this 4-month course. Struggling to position myself on a more rational ground, I forced myself to view DTC as an opportunity to improve and immerse myself with the essential knowledge of a diplomat, in order to face the rigors of challenge in safeguarding
I officially become a participant of DTC 2008 when I registered successfully for the course at the
Upon the change of mindset, I vowed that I would put my utmost effort in improving myself. I began the improved-myself process by taking the intensive French Lessons offered by the IDFR. Having the privileged to learn French before, and I viewed this as an opportunity to refresh and further strengthen my understanding and proficiency of the language. A senior Malaysian diplomat once told me, that mastering a third language like French would soon prove to be very useful in my career as a diplomat.
Besides French, I was also exposed to the usage of English in the diplomatic world. I started to train myself to use English as a persuasive tool to obtain something from others as well as to deploy English as the most potent weapon that would penetrate even the thickest enemy’s shield without the slightest drops of sweat nor blood. I learned from the pronunciation session that a diplomat has the ability to make nothing sounds like something. I even discovered how to say the nastiest things in the nicest way. After all, I would be expected to be tactful in order to persuade people to lay down their life for my country. I must apologise, did I say people? I actually meant to lay down my life for my country. I am such a cliché.
I believed En. Hanif session on the ‘Attributes of a Diplomat’ can be concluded simply by saying that ‘a diplomat is a person who knows how far to go before he goes too far’. Therefore, before I got carried away in exercising the right to freedom of free speech, and before my openness in writing, be interpreted as sarcasm, allow me to wind up my journal this week, by thanking the Almighty, for the opportunity to join this course, and I pray hard that by the end of this course, I would become better prepared, well equipped, and a more polished diplomat. God Willing.
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IF the digit number Seven & Eight is 02 or 20 that mean it was
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In line with the Hari Raya Spirit, allow me to wish everyone again Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri. I sincerely hope that everyone's digestive system would not be facing any "technical glitches" due to "overwhelming intake" of Ketupat, Rendang, Lemang, Almond London, Kuih Tat Nenas, Kek Lapis (and the list continues...) I do hope that all the weights that we have lost during the fasting months will be recovered "exponentially" rather than "dramatically". Though the latter seems to be more prominent and likely in my case.
I just wanna share an article which i read on the fourth day of Hari Raya. The article was written by Syed Nazri, published in the NST dated October 16, entitled Being Physically and Spritually Sorry.
The article is about an E-Hari Raya Card that was sent by a company name Crush Communication. It was a cunning move by the company to come up with such a profound message that nudges us to contemplate on the intrinsic meaning of staple phrase we keep on saying to one another year after year but at times never actually living up to its spirit.
The greeting card appears simple but the contents is really riveting.
It starts with:
WE'RE SORRY
For sending you the dullest Raya card ever"
Every Hari Raya, our muslim friends will use greeting so simple in its execution, many forget its significance. The greeting maaf zahir batin which translate loosely to " I seek forgiveness (from you) physically and spiritually for Hari Raya means a time to reconcile and renew relationships with others.
Forgiveness is something we should all practise. Not just for Hari Raya but every day. we should celebrate it and embrace it as an essential part of our lives.
There is nothing so bad that cannot be forgiven. Hurt will never heal until you forgive.
If you are at war with others, you cannot be at peace with yourself. You can let go and forgive. It takes no physical strength to let go only courage.
Forgiveness is the single most important process that can bring peace to our souls and harmony to our lives. forgiveness is not something we have to strain ourselves to do. Forgiveness helps you move forward. No one benefits from forgiveness more than the one who forgives.
Give yourselves the gift of forgiveness today. Maaf zahir batin to all.
" The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong - Mahatma Gandhi"
So there. perhaps a little sentimental, but so real. Touching isn't it?
Again, Selamat Hari Raya and Maaf Zahir Batin.
I was totally dismayed and disappointed to see the product, that i am without the slightest doubt that this product would cause another chaotic situation and probaly another unnecessary bloodshed, given the fact that the world is just "cooling down" from the last fiasco over the caricature of prophet Muhammad.
After looking 'deeper' at the picture of the product, i found it difficult to fathom why LEGO would produce such product that would destroy their corporate image, thus i take the liberty to shoot an email to LEGO Company just to double check the authenticity of the picture.
and guess what? the picture is a FAKE!
Below are the my email to LEGO and the response from LEGO:
My email to LEGO COMPANY:
I received email with picture saying that LEGO recently launch a product depicting prophet Mohammed with the caption "Play as if you are Prophet Mohamed. Contains 23 wives including 6 year old Ayesha". Please confirm whether the product really exist?
Respond from LEGO:
Dear Mr Abdul Malek, The picture you have seen is most definitely not a picture of a LEGO product. It is a computer manipulated image, without any association to a physical product of any kind. Unfortunately, we do not know the source of the picture, but we have seen it appear on different web sites on the internet a number of times this year. We have obviously investigated various ways to stop circulation of this picture on the Internet, and since civil actions does not seem be an effective tool in this respect, we have decided that our best option is to work with the Danish police. We certainly hope that circulation of this picture will be stopped, sooner rather than later. You can also check our company statement on this issue following the link:
http://www.lego.com/eng/info/default.asp?page=
pressdetail&contentid=22333&countrycode=2057&yearcode=&archive=false
Yours sincerely,
Susana Rodriguez LEGO Direct
I strongly believe that this is a deliberate effort to engulf the Muslims into unnecessary cloud of confusion and hatred. So.. I beg to everyone, please forward this information to everyone that had received the fake email so that hopefully it will reach the imposter/traitor/ whose heart is full of malicious intent to not allow the world to become a better place.. for everyone regardless their religion or race...
I attached the picture with here and also the text that comes together with the picture as a
reference.
Salam..
The Fake Email
Kawan-kawan sekelian, Ini lah satu-satu contoh e-mail yang seharusnya kita ' on the spot ' forward kat kat saudara-saudara se muslim kita. Ia nya tidak mengandungi unsur-unsur fitnah untuk menjatuhkan sebarang individu atau sesuatu organasasi. Kita semuanya sudah maklum betapa kerasnya permusuhan kerajaan Denmark terhadap Islam. Khasnya dalam kontek memperlekehkan junjungan besar Nabi Muhammad SAW, seorang manusia yang termulia, di beri kitab termulia, dalam bahasa termulia, di tanah termulia di muka bumi. Benarlah Kalamullah " wa lan tar dha ankal yahudu wa laan nasaara hatta tattabia millahum " !!!STOP BUYING LEGO PRODUCT!!! Allahu Akbar!!!!! Takbir! Takbir! Takbir!!!!! Assalamualaikum, refer to the latest lego collection recently launched in denmark , i wish we could start thinking about that. Please inform our malaysian muslim to stop buying and boycott all lego products. Ya Allah ! Selamatkanlah Umat Islam di seluruh dunia ini. Betulkan niat dalam melakukan sesuatu kerana Allah S.W.T
Literally, "RIGHT" means 1) just, 2) true or correct or 3) proper.
I am more interested on the fourth meaning of RIGHT that is 4) MostFavourable or Convenience. It was spelled clearly in the dictionary without mentioning most favourable by whom or most convenience by whom.Yeah right majority rules, when majority says a thing is black in colour, then the minority must be agreeable that it is black though the minority knows that it is actually white (or what ever colour it is). Just like what is happening in Thailand now.
(Don't forget the "Iluminati" and the Priory of Zion; I was deeply influenced by DAN BROWN)I was watching the movie "Back to the Future II" which was aired byAstro last week, (Don't worry for those who missed it Astro will definitely air it again and again until people lodge complaints inthe newspaper) there was a phrase that caught me completely off-guard. The Professor said this " Sometime doing the right thing is not the right thing"I once was invited to share my experience with some student leaders at one of the IPTA. We were discussing about the different between a CEO and a LEADER. How best can we describe these two? I told themthis "A CEO DO THINGS RIGHT" but " A LEADER DO THE RIGHT THING".
"People say that they will learn from mistakes, but I will be the one who benefit the most from people mistakes, by also learning from their mistake without making one."
I feel obliged to write about Akademi Fantasia not because I am a fan of the show nor that I hate the show but I am more interested the way the show has been used as a tool to manipulate people emotions thus disarmed them completely. Most teenagers believe that the fastest and the easiest way to fame is by becoming the participants of Akademi Fantasia. Is it true? Instant fame maybe... but don't ever forget that what goes up must go down.
It is interesting to see how people wept endlessly when their favourite’s participant voted out of the show. But can anyone tell me how many Malaysian wept when a University student is being kicked-out of University due to all kind of reason? Nobody cares... my point exactly... why put so many weight and attention for the show since there are so many other issues that needs our attention. I am truly insulted to see that the participants have their own graduation day with all kind of colourful robe. Look I got nothing against the students but I can’t comprehend how the management team is allowed to use that kind of wardrobe in the show. Hmm it seems that I am moving away from my blog title.
Okay let’s get back on track.
Previously Islamic values were being put aside from the entertainment world. I still recalled vividly during AF1, in University Putra Malaysia, how the male and the female students we hugging live on ASTRO without having any sense of quit or shame! The act got some bashing from the public and was criticised in the Friday sermon. Following that, they put some restrictions to the student’s behaviour.
What happened to AF3 is totally by co-incidence. Seeing that a teenager with some Islamic background has been receiving many support from the Malaysians, ASTRO had to act quickly to capitalise on it. They were forced to bend the rules. I believes the public notices that actually they don’t have any rules they. The rules are set to change whenever they feel that the public support to the show is decreasing. ASTRO would never jeopardise the show just for the sake of maintaining the rules and regulations. That is why Linda Nanuwill managed to be reinstated to the show though was voted out earlier.
After seeing how they managed to capitalise with a students with a little bit of Islamic background, ASTRO again more or less tries the same strategy this season put banking the show on the first female contestant who wears a tudung/hijab. The purpose was ultimately to make a repeat of Mawi Phenomena or what ever they called it, but this time with a female contestant. The response was overwhelming. Let’s wait for this week first concert and see who will be topping the sms chart.
Why after three seasons the winner will always be guys? Are they that good? And why I believe this year it will be another guy if he is smart enough to garner the needed support from the viewer and steal the thunder from Salima.
Why Salima? WE must accept the fact that most voters are female teenager voters; and it is normal for female to be attracted to the opposite sex. For ASTRO to ensure that this time the winner should be a female winner something needs to be add to the female students. Salima fit into their requirement. We are going to see how ASTRO will potray Salima as someone who has an Islamic background that can clearly be seen as she is wearing tudung, as the next role model to overcome Mawi popularity. I believe she will get the attention that ASTRO wanted but then it is again up to her how she will be playing the game.
It is simple as this. It’s like 2 chess player playing a delicate game of deceive and decoy on the 64 squares. ASTRO is playing white who will make the first move and all Malaysian is playing Black waiting for white to moves and all the students were nothing more than just a chess set if not the pawns.
Who will be at the losing end? Checkmate! White Wins, Black lose, there will never draw the game. 1-0.
Unless Black checkmate White first….
Two horses were carrying two loads. The front horse went well, but the rear horse was lazy. The men began to pile the rear horse's load on the front horse; when they had transferred it all, the rear horse found it easy going, and he said to the front horse: "Toil and sweat! The more you try, the more you suffer." When they reached the tavern, the owner said : "Why should i fodder two horses when I can carry all on one? I had better give the one all the food it wants, and cut the throat of the other; at least i shall have the hide." And so he did.
FABLES, LEO TOLSTOY, 1828 - 1910
Can always make himself misunderstood. Can bring home the bacon without spilling the beans. Can convince his wife not to hide her nice body under a floor-length sable. Can convince his wife to show off her new coat in a bus rather than in a taxi. Can juggle a hot potato long enough for it to become a cold issue. Can keep his shirt on while getting something off his chest. Can look happy when he has unexpected dinner guests. Can make his wife believe she will look fat in a mink coat.
Can make nothing sound like something. Can put his best foot forward when he doesn't have a leg to stand on. Can put his foot down without stepping on someone's toes. Can say the nastiest things in the nicest way. Can tell a man he'sopen-minded when he means he has a hole in his head. Can tell you to go to hell so tactfully that you look forward to the trip. Comes right out and says what he thinks when he agrees with you.
Divides his time between running for office and running for cover. Has a straightforward way of dodging issues. Knows how far to go before he goes too far. Lets you do all the talking while he gets what he wants. Never tells a woman how nice she looks in a gown. He tells her how nice the gown looks on her. Puts his cards on the table, but still has some up each sleeve. Straddles an issue whenever he isn't dodging one. Will approach every question with an open mouth.
Will lay down your life for his country. Will refuse to answer any question on the ground it might eliminate him.